Oh Ye of Little Faith

Here’s a story on FoxNews that just ticks me off.  The headline reads: “Wisconsin Parents Didn’t Expect Daughter to Die During Prayer.”  Duh.

It’s a story about an 11 year old girl (I have two girls ages 10 and 11, so I can relate to the the parents) who hasn’t seen a doctor since she was 3.  She had a treatable form of diabetes, but the parents “did not know her daughter was terminally ill as she prayed for her to get better.”

Here are a few other quotes from the story – and my comments. 

Her mother, Leilani Neumann, told The Associated Press that she never expected her daughter, whom she called Kara, to die. The family believes in the Bible, and it says healing comes from God, but they are not crazy, religious people, she said.

Ah, that makes it all ok – her parents never expected her to die, because they beleive in the power of the Bible, and that God would take care of them.   Somehow they think that qualifies them as “not crazy religious people.”  Ok, I’ll bite – what does that qualify them for?  They’re certainly not rational, intelligent people.   Read this entry from the mother for proof.

Every time I hear about someone who believes that God will take care of them, I’m reminded of a joke I read in Readers Digest years ago.  It went something like:

Heavy rains came and the flood waters started rising around a house.  The police drove down the street in a boat and urged the family to evacuate, but they said they weren’t leaving, because “God will take care of us.”  The flood waters kept rising….  Soon the waters were up to the 2nd story of the house. 

Another boat came by and urged the family to climb in and get away from the danger.  Again they refused to evacuate, saying “God will take care of us.”  But the waters kept rising….

The family had to move to the roof of the house to stay above the raging waters.  A helicopter came by to rescue them, but again they refused to leave, saying “God will take care of us.”   A few minutes later the flood waters washed the family away and they all drowned. 

When they stood before God at the pearly gates they were upset.  They complained that even though they had great faith, God let them die in the flood.  They asked why God didn’t take care of them.

God replied “I sent you two boats and a helicopter – what more do you want?”

Of course the moral of the story is that God helps those who help themselves, and that we should use our God-given abilities as best we can. 

Humans are the only species on earth that NEED to make things to survive.  We survive by using our minds, our ability to reason, our ability to make the things we need to live. 

How did the family eat?  Where did they live?  What did they wear for clothing?  God didn’t give them any of those things – why would any sane person believe that God would cure their sick child?  If you believe in God, why would you not think that he gave us the ability to make medicines in order to cure disease?  (Of course that begs the question of why God would create diseases that needed to be cured, but that’s a topic for another day.)

Another quote from the story: “Officers went to the home after a relative in California asked police to check on the girl.”  A relative a thousand miles away knew something was wrong, but the parents were too stupid to know what was happening.  I’m sorry, but they need to be charged with murder, and their other kids need to be taken away from them immediately.

“Our lives are in God’s hands and whatever we go through we are just going to trust him,” she said. “We need healing. We are going through the healing process.”

No, your lives are in the hands of the courts now, and you’ve demonstrated that you aren’t able to make rational decisions.  We (as a society) will not allow you to withhold treatment (and the example of rational thought) from your other children, so you can’t keep them any longer.

Now I hate to say the above, because I absolutely despise government intervention in private lives, but children are considered children because they have not yet reached the age of reason.  They can’t decide things for themselves yet, so parents need to protect and teach them until they can make important decisions on their own. 

If you’re over 18, you can do whatever you want to yourself.  Don’t go to the doctor, go ahead and shoot up heroin, smoke crack, snort cocaine, starve yourself to death, drink too much, smoke all the cigarettes you want, or whatever else you want to do – as far as I’m concerned that’s your right.  But you can’t do that to others.

By the way, one of my favorite “more accurate than the dictionary” definitions is the definition of the word “believe.”  I don’t remember where I read it, but it goes something like “believe: to have confidence in the existence or truth of something despite any evidence to support the conclusion.” 

gk

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3 Responses to “Oh Ye of Little Faith”

  1. JHC Says:

    Wow you sure have it all figured out. Too bad as a parent,
    you couldn’t find instead compassion for this mom and dad, though, for
    what they are going through with the loss of their child. How easy
    it is to judge and to condemn when you haven’t walked in another
    person’s shoes, when you truly have no idea what trials and circumstances
    life has thrown them. How dare you point your self righteous finger
    at them and mock them when you know nothing, nothing at all, all you know is your own form of self righteous conclusions. You would rather condemn them right away, never thinking for one minute that perhaps somewhere down the road of life, you yourself, might just be in need of some compassion and mercy in your own life from someone else. In your children’s life perhaps? In the long run, you might want to remember that life can take some real deep turns and valleys, disappointments,
    and devastations, life has a way of teaching us some good hard lessons esp when we think we know everything. This is especially true when we point the self righteous finger and immediately jump on the
    band wagon by judging and condeming what we know nothing
    about. By taking a stand against this family in such a hurtful way you
    have really revealed your own insecurity and foolishness for all to see. You
    have placed yourself in a very delicate position. You are the one I feel sorry for. I have helped a friend thru the long hard never ending road of deep loss and pain that the loss of a child brings. Because of that, i sure would never be as self righteous and smug as you are. I would never ever wish that pain or be sarcastic as you have been against these parents.
    I have never lost a child but I have saw first hand in my friend the deep pain that never ever really goes completely away. There is always a part of your life that you have to live without. However,you , on the other hand, would rather self righteously condemn these parents … You obviously have so much confidence in yourself as a parent that you are so smart that you don’t need God at all, and also, you would never make a mistake LOLL. I am sure that by writing this post it has helped you to conclude of course even further, how right you are and how much better a parent you are and how you would never make the mistake of these parents.
    What a wonder !

  2. Gary Says:

    My short answer is that I have compassion for those who deserve my compassion. Should I feel sorry for these people who killed their daughter because they refused to get medical treatment for her?

    That’s like the jury feeling compassion for the Lyle and Erik Menendez because they were orphans. Look it up if you don’t remember it.

    Thank you for taking the time to send me your thoughts. I do disagree with you on this, but I also value your opinion.

    gk

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